"cats in the cradle"...

we waited a long time to think about having kids - for this very reason - they are such a marker of the passing of time. j & i often find ourselves now in awe of just how fast it seems to pass these days. i hold onto these moments...and tuck them safely away in my heart. as i write this, this song plays - j has always loved it -- and more so now as it speaks to him on a whole other level.